Be In Harmony With Every Man

Sometimes one of the most challenging things to say or give is an apology.Many times we just don't have the right words or just don't know how to say sorry, many times also- we just refuse to say it. Maybe this is just me, but I hate having to admit that I was in the wrong. Sometimes I think it would be so much easier if we didn't have to apologize. What happened to "Forgive and Forget?" Although I know I have issues, because when somebody wrongs me or hurts my feelings, I automatically expect an apology of some sort.

However small you think the mistake may be could have devastating effects on your relationships if sorry is not in your vocabulary. Go ahead,say you are sorry.Apologize! If you don't, theres a chance they won't forgive you.Don't let your pride get in the way of your friendship! Here are some ideas and tips to make this process easy, maybe even fun!Show that special person that you do care!

Simply say that you are sorry. Say it like you mean it. Don't apologize if you're not sorry. Lying will only make things worse as the other person will sense the pretense.

STEPS

1) Be sure that you can admit any wrong doing. Telling this person that you are in the wrong lets them see that you know why/how you have offended them. You could explain the reasoning behind your actions, but you don't need to.

2) Find out how you can make it right. Ask them what you could do to fix this. Reassure them that you will not do 'this' again.

3) Ask them for forgiveness. But remember that it is their choice whether they give it to you or not. Being truly sorry means that you want to put the whole mess behind you. Being forgiven means that it will never be drug up again. True forgiveness means burying your differences for good.

4) You are human.Everybody makes mistakes.Accept this and move on.Forgive yourself.

5) Send them an E-card!Perfect way to express yourself!Step 7
Sending flowers or small gifts are also a great way to make up and say you are sorry!They will enjoy how thoughtful you really are.You will be amzed at how flowers can so easily 'fix' things!

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Today, there are divorces even in the Church as a result of pride and Christian not been able to say sorry. Sorry has become so expensive that- men and women cannot use it. There are wars and tribal fight all over as a result of "I am too proud to say sorry".